Real Men Don’t Help with Housework!

                Yes, you read that correctly:  REAL MEN DON’T HELP WITH HOUSEHOLD CHORES! I was born with skin color and genitalia that gave me privilege in life.  I’m a white guy!  I was born into a culture that values men over women.  In 2019, the pay...

The Spot Light Effect

Less than half an hour into my day long Writer’s Retreat, I realized that the sole of my left shoe had detached itself from the toe almost to the heel.  I couldn’t walk without lifting my foot as if I was trudging through deep mud. With some embarrassment, I took it...

The Price of Convenience

T              Teaching “Health Psychology,” made me a little more sensitive to related news stories.  I saw an ad for “Grub Hub,” and realized that this is part of a new trend of similar offerings...

Futility of “Why?”

              Earlier this morning as I was scrolling through Facebook, I came across a post that said something to the effect that the problem with “Everything happens for a reason,” is waiting for the reason!  I guess there is some comfort in thinking that...

To Whom Much is Given

In 2004, Forbes Magazine added J.K. Rowling to the list of billionaires in the world, due to the royalties of her Harry Potter books and subsequent movies.  In 2012, the same magazine reported that she had dropped off the list of billionaires due to two factors: ...

Nature Always Wins

Admittedly, I’m not a fan of modern art, but I recently toured the Hirschhorn Museum in Washington, DC, I was struck by one of the sculptures outside.  It is a 1992 Chrysler Spirit that has been crushed by a nine-ton volcanic bolder, and the bolder has eyes and a...

Good Vibrations

It’s hard for me to believe that it has been over fifty years since Brian Wilson wrote – and the Beach Boys recorded – the classic “Good Vibrations.”   He grew up with his mother teaching him about the vibrations that are given off by living things.  For example, she...

Asking the Right Questions

I’m not a hoarder … but I sure do keep a lot of “stuff!”  We live in a relatively small house and it is full … of stuff.  My wife started out with a nice, neat “Barbie Doll” house, and then “Ken” moved in and brought a lot of his stuff.  Not long...

The All-Seeing Eye

The All-Seeing Eye Many cultures, including our own, have used the symbol of an “all-seeing eye.”  We see it every time we look at our own currency, the one-dollar bill.  Unfortunately, the conspiracy theorists have hijacked the symbol and turned it into something...

Who You Were

Who You Were   I recently attended an event at Bryant University and was having lunch with an assortment of people.  What we all had in common was a relationship with Bryant.  As the conversation progressed two of them realized that they were both Bryant Alumnae from...